Date wants to pick me up on second date-ok to say no?

Posted by Arica Deslauriers on Saturday, May 18, 2024
You're not being paranoid. You are being smart.

I will say that after meeting my boyfriend in person for the first time (we had been texting non-stop and talking on the phone for hours at a time for a couple weeks before that), I felt very comfortable with him, and on our 2nd date, I actually went to his house and was comfortable getting in his car for him to drive us wherever we went.

But that was my intuition about this particular guy and we are still together several months later.

If your intuition is saying that you do not know him well enough to trust and let him drive you somewhere, then trust that intuition. You get those feelings for a reason.

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